Friday, May 21, 2021

To Your Talent Add.....

 



“Talent is cheap; dedication is expensive. It will cost you your life.”
― Irving Stone.

How many talented people have you come across who are not living the life you expected them to live? What keeps many talented people in the rut of struggle? How many times have you heard the term struggling artiste? There is nothing more common than talent without success.

Talented people are supposed to be living the dream life and some of them do? What then separates the two groups? Why do some people seem to find a way to hack their talents and live the good life while others can’t seem to get it right?

In the words of a book by John Maxwell I begin by saying Talent is never enough. Left on its own, talent doesn’t get you very far. You need to look at it as a first step on the staircase of success and fulfilment. Zig Ziglar said that the elevator to success room is out of order. You have to take the stairs. There are certain things you can do that unleash the potential of your talent just like there are things you do that keep your talent caged and never able to express itself.

According to James Clear, in his book Atomic Habits, success with talent is a function of both nature and nurture. In this book he speaks about how Michael Phelps one of the greatest swimmers of all time has a body type that favors the sport he excels in. The point is that the natural makeup component which speaks of raw talent is significant and cannot be ignored. You therefore before anything else must ask yourself whether you have the natural ability to do what you are pursuing. It is far much easier to push yourself in the direction where your natural abilities are more likely to shine through. Someone else said we make a mistake when we judge a fish by its ability to fly. Fish thrive in the water. Take them out and they are at a significant disadvantage. The same thing applies to us. We can only thrive where our natural strengths are.

Having said that, there is the second aspect of nurture which deals with what I want to share with us here. What are you supposed to do to create an environment and conditions, favorable to the exploitation of your potential? I hope by now we are clear that talent is raw material. Raw materials are taken through a process of value addition before they come out as finished products which meet consumer needs and expectations. It is by going through the process that trees turn into paper, Think about the process of extracting gold to the point where it is ready to be used to make beautiful ornaments. When the gold is dug up out of the ground it is full of impurities of all kinds. I checked out science.howstuffworks.com/gold to understand how gold ore is turned into usable gold. I found the elaborate process I describe below in their own words. The first step is to break the ore into smaller pieces using crushers. It is then put through rotating drums where it is ground into to a fine slurry powder. The slurry powder is thickened with water and run through a series of leaching tanks. Leaching dissolves the gold out of the ore using a chemical solvent like cyanide together with oxygen. The chemical reaction causes the gold in the pulp to dissolve. Carbon grains are released into the tank and the gold adheres to them. Filtering the pulp through screens separates the gold bearing carbon. It then moves to a stripping vessel where a hot caustic solution separates the gold from the carbon. The gold bearing solution is electrowinned to recover the gold from the leaching chemicals. Then the smelting process begins. This process involves heating the ore at very high temperatures (1149 Degrees Celsius).  Flux is added to the molten material to separate the gold from the metal used to make the elctrowinning terminals. Flux is poured out and then the gold follows. Molds are used to transform the liquid gold into solid bars (dore bars) These bars are then sent to refineries for further processing. Refining involves removing impurities that remain after the smelting process. Workers add borax and Soda Ash to the molten metal which separates the pure gold from other precious and less precious metals. It is then taken to the lab for tests or assays to measure the content of gold in it. This refined gold is then made into bars ready for use. In some instances, there is need the pure gold to be mixed with other metals to form alloys like white gold for specific purposes. It is important for talented individuals to see themselves as a precious metal in the rough. Left to themselves, they amount to nothing much or they are used for mundane tasks. However refined and polished, they become such a treasure that they are deployed for only the noblest tasks.

There are no shortcuts to the top and only those willing to go through the process will make it. It is also important to note that the most precious metals go through elaborate processes to be ready for use. Be it Diamond or gold or any of the other metals we highly value, the process is long but worthwhile.

Metamorphosis Alert: Every Artist was once an Amateur-Ralph Waldo Emerson.

What kind of metamorphosis do your talents need to go through before they are fit for noble purposes?

I am sure you have come across this phrase but if not here it is. Charisma will take you to the top of the table but only Character will keep you there. Character is the crucible where your talent is prepared for deployment. There are a number of things that can help you build the requisite character to get to the top and stay there.

1)      You need an education. Many talented people do not see the value of educating themselves. While you do not need academic knowledge, there are certain basic levels of education that are necessary for everyone. Education is a powerful tool in shaping us and helping us in our interaction with others. Through education, you learn the people skills necessary for living and working with others. Education will teach you basic communication skills which you need in dealing with other people. Beyond basic education, you need to embrace talent or field specific education. If you look keenly, you will find that every field has certain basic things which you need to be conversant with if you will function effectively therein. This explains why there are football academies, programs that train musicians, comedians, thespians, actors and all kinds of talented people. You therefore cannot run away from education if you will improve your odds of building a fulfilling career out of your talents.

2)      Coaching. The need for a coach for your talent is much like the need for oxygen for your lungs. A coach exists to teach you the specific skills you need to thrive in your area of specialization. Such an individual refines your skills and keeps helping you make improvements as you go along. A good coach will identify the aspects of your talent that need work and develop a program to help you work at them until you become proficient.

3)      Practice. There is no substitute for practice when it comes to refining your talent. Practice makes permanent so goes the maxim. The more you do what you need to do, the better you become at it. It has been suggested that it takes 10000 hours of practice to become a master at a craft. It is not just the passage of time that matters but what you do in the course of that duration. In his book The Coaching Habit, Michael Bungay Stanier, speaks about deep practice which involves a variety of approaches to practice. These include:

1.       Practicing small chunks of the bigger action. Hungry for excellence.

2.       Repetition, repetition and repetition… and repetition. Do it fast, do it slow, do it differently. But keep repeating the action.

3.       And finally, being mindful and noticing when it goes well. When it does, celebrate success.

4)      Discipline. The greatest aid to talent development is the discipline you assign to it. Discipline will help you say no to the more appealing things you can do when you should be working on your talent. It will help you avoid the things that will impact negatively on your growth. Discipline will keep success from going to your head and messing you up. It will help you put in the work when every part of your body tells you otherwise. Discipline will keep you doing the right thing when no one else is watching or following up with you. It will get you back on track when you slip up. Those who have played with Cristiano Ronaldo keep speaking about his discipline. During his time at Manchester United, his teammates spoke about his obsession with exercise. Carlos Tevez spoke about never being able to beat him at getting out on the training field no matter how early he tried to come. He was always the first one in and the last one out at the training field-No wonder his phenomenal success. Patrice Evra was afraid of visiting CR7 at home because he would challenge him to exercise even in the house. There was an obsession about him. As a disciplined individual, you appear obsessed because very few things will keep you from doing what you know you need to do.

5)      Financial Literacy. A lot of us are good at what we do but we make avoidable blunders in other areas of our lives which are equally important. There is only so much someone else like a financial advisor can do for you. No one will ever care for your money more than you. It has to be your business what happens to your money. I don’t mean this in a day to day kind of way, but you need an understanding of the fundamentals around your money so that you are not ripped off and left high and dry. There have been many cases of high flying athletes who have found themselves on the wrong side of the financial equation. Many of them came into a lot of money when they were barely out of their teens. This meant they were short on understanding of financial matters. While it is ok when you are getting started, the faster you attain financial literacy the wiser you are in keeping things in place. Financial literacy will help you get a grip on where to invest your extra cash, take care of your family, avoid wastage, and many other benefits. There are individuals who have done very well for themselves out of their talents. Jay-Z is one of the best out there at this kind of thing. Though he isn’t the most talented (my opinion) hip-Hop Artiste, he is very good as a businessman who has leveraged his talent to earn a living. He recently became Hip-Hop’s first Dollar Billionaire. Fun Fact-Most of his money has not come from His music though that has remained a big part of his brand. We could talk about Shaquille O’Neal and Michael Jordan in the same breath. Understanding endorsement deals and becoming a marketable athlete/talent are huge lessons you learn through financial literacy. Locally we have our MacDonald Mariga who has done very well for himself in taking his brand beyond football. The significance of this cannot be overemphasized.

6)      Hard work. I will begin this with a couple of quotes.

“Talent is cheaper than table salt. What separates the talented individual from the successful one is a lot of hard work.”
― Stephen King

“The artist is nothing without the gift, but the gift is nothing without work.”
― 
Émile Zola

“Hard work beats talent when talent fails to work hard.”
― Kevin Durant

There is no substitute for hard work. If you do not put in the hard work required, you can forget ever becoming anyone to write home about. I know people like substituting hard work for smart work but I am a proponent of both. We should not substitute one for the other. The person who works smart and hard is guaranteed lasting success. I believe in massive action like Grant Cardone puts it. Many of us underestimate the amount of effort required to attain our desired goals. As such we put in very little action and are surprised at our results. The only way to guarantee results is to go the way of massive action.

7)      Selling and negotiation skills. If you are like most talented people, you need to offer your services in exchange for money. There will come a time for endorsement deals if you are not already there. You do not need to be a master negotiator but you must have basic ideas about what your value is and how to communicate. Selling is one of those skills that everybody needs to make use of yet we fail to realize. We sell every day. Convincing your friend to choose one leisure activity over another is a form of selling. Adding these skills to your resume will serve you well as you go about exploiting your talents. You could have a team in place to do this for you but you need to retain the ability to argue your own case if it comes down to that. I am reminded of what happened in Kenya in 2007/08 after the disputed general election. The Grand coalition government was formed only when the two protagonists met face to face. Their teams had negotiated themselves into a deadlock. At this point what worked was how well each of them could argue his case in person. The same goes for you, when your team cannot strike a deal, are you able to step up and get it done? This is why selling skills are a huge asset to have in your corner as you pursue success with your talent.

8)      Integrity. You must become a man or woman of your word. People do not like dealing with snakes. They prefer dealing with other people they can rely on. The idea of presenting yourself one way and acting contrary does not sit well with people and once they learn you are not reliable, you have just shot yourself in the foot. People of integrity do not engage in doublespeak. They do not go back on their commitments however much it hurts. They do not sign a deal and back out of it because there is a better deal unless it was built into their original deal that they have this provision. Integrity begins with a value system. You must remain true to your values wherever you find yourself. Nobody wants to deal with a person who doesn’t stand for anything. They want to know what your expectations are and what you are committed to. Integrity goes a long way in positioning you for long term success and respect from all associated with you.

9)      Positioning. Square pegs fit well in square holes. “According to this law [the law of Dharma], you have a unique talent and a unique way of expressing it. There is something that you can do better than anyone else in the whole world--and for every unique talent and unique expression of that talent, there are also unique needs. When these needs are matched with the creative expression of your talent, that is the spark that creates affluence. Expressing your talents to fulfill needs creates unlimited wealth and abundance.”
― Deepak Chopra.

You need to identify the place where you are a perfect fit and if you can’t find one, create one. After all, you are a creative.  

10)   Hunger. One of the other things that separate average from premier talent, is the hunger they have for getting to the top. Premier talents are ever challenging themselves and holding themselves to a higher standard. They do not settle for just being the best in the group. They look beyond their peers and find new challenges to overcome. “If you ever find that you're the most talented person in the room, you need to find another room.”
― Austin Kleon. Do not be among those who are contended with the applause of your peers to the point of forgetting there is much more land left to conquer.

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Thursday, May 13, 2021

Win Within

 

You are your best pep talk



The book of 1 Samuel 30 starts on a very somber mood for David and his men. After having been away in battle, they come back home and find that the Amalekites had raided their camp and carried away everything they valued especially their wives and kids. The situation was so bad that the whole city of Ziklag was burned up. This meant there was nothing for them to fall back on.

The discouragement was top notch to say the least. In describing the scene, the narrator indicates that they cried until there was no more strength left in them. The good thing is that their story did not end there. Let us take a closer look at what happened here and what lessons we can learn.

David and his men came home to an unsightly scene. The image of their city burned up was such a humbling experience. They were brought to their knees and didn’t know what to do. Lesson number one is that in the journey of life, we are bound to encounter discouragement. It is not a matter of if, but when our discouragement will show up. We all get to that point where we come face to face with something that is so far removed from our expectations that it crashes us to pieces. If you have not been there, I guarantee you that your time in that space is coming. I say this not as a prophet of doom but as someone who has been around long enough to know that this is everyone’s experience.

It is okay to cry your heart out. 1 Samuel 30:4 describes what David and his men did when they suffered that loss. David was one expressive fellow. This explains why he wrote so many of the Psalms we love to read today. The man was emotionally intelligent. David would frown upon the so called masculinity of today’s age where men are described by their ability to hold their feelings in. Such machismo does not help you process what is happening in your life. David was at home on the battle field fighting Goliath and others because he was a man of courage and unshakeable faith in God. He was also at home expressing his feelings to God concerning his helplessness. He did not do it in secret but in the presence of his men. I bet this explains why he was always fine with expressing his feelings in the Psalms. This is a huge lesson for me as a man and I hope it also resonates with other men out here who are forced to put on a brave face and show no weaknesses. The important thing is what do you do after you express your feelings? There is a lot of healing that comes your way after you do so but there is more that still needs to be done.

Strangely enough, the men turned their anguish onto David. As their leader, they felt he had let them down. At this point they spared no thought for him and the losses he had suffered as well. As a leader, you must get used to carrying both your own burdens and the burdens of others. Even when you are all suffering, it is still expected of you to stand up and offer leadership. These men wanted to stone David because they needed a place to take out their anguish. A leader sometimes becomes a punching bag for the anger of others.

This is where a key lesson comes up about you needing to give yourself a pep talk. What do you do when those who are supposed to empathize with you turn their backs on you? What do you do when your support system comes crumbling down? What do you do when there is no one to lift up your spirit? Who do you turn to when everything and everyone seems to have turned against you? David has an answer for us. At such times, the only person you can turn to is yourself. When there is no external voice that tells you to go on, your inner voice must always rise up to keep you on track. Have you develop an inner voice strong enough to silence all the noise around you? One thing we must do is learn to sit ourselves down regularly and tell ourselves that we’ve got what it takes to go on. Understand that everyone is going through their own stuff and they might not always be there to lift you up. Everyone has their battles to fight and they will not have the energy to expend on helping you fight yours. If you don’t learn how to lift up your own spirit, the journey will overwhelm you. You’ve got to sit yourself down and say, ‘I’ve got this, I can pull through this, I am equal to the challenge, I have the wherewithal to manage this. The kind of narrative you feed yourself during your downtime has a great bearing on your ability to rise again. Choose your narrative carefully and do not allow the actions/non-actions of others determine what happens with you. Master the art of talking the right words to yourself. 1 Samuel 30:6 says, ‘But David encouraged and strengthened himself in the Lord his God.’ Encouragement is an inside job. Whatever someone else says is only meant to add on to what you already know and have told yourself in the process. Do not wait for outsiders to come tell you that it will be well. Your buddies can turn on you like David’s men did.  What do you do in that instance? You must find a way to encourage yourself in the Lord.

Something happens once David takes this posture of positive self-talk. He is able to connect with God and finds direction on how to solve his problem. A man who encourages himself in the Lord will always find a way through his predicament. There is a clarity of thought that you are able to maintain when you learn to direct the narrative of your life through the right self-talk. David was able to recover everything that had been taken away and regain the confidence of his men.

What are you going to do the next time you are under siege and there is no one to lift you up?